
I realized I had a problem with my weight when I walked into a clothing store in my hometown of Atlanta. The sales associate informed me that the largest size they sold was a size 16. At the time, I wore a size 20. I was 2 sizes too fat to shop in their store. Dejected and humiliated, I left the store.
It was the beginning of my realization that I had become fat.
When I started my marketing company in 2002, there was one man I credit with helping me get my company off the ground. His teachings had been immeasurable. It meant everything in the world for me to finally meet this “guru” several years later in 2006. Having my picture taken with him was the highlight of my trip.
However, when the picture was sent to me via email, I didn’t recognize the woman I was looking at. I smoked a pack and a half a day, ate like a man, and it showed.
I looked like I’d check out of life and that wasn’t the case! When I noticed my oldest son developing “love handles” at age 11, I knew I had to do something!
I was my own guinea pig at first. I tried every ‘fad diet’ or weight loss pill imaginable.
I wished every week when I went to my local vitamin store that the manager would say, “We’ve got a new Magic Pill that’ll make you lose 60 pounds overnight. All it costs is one of your legs and to shave your head.” I would have left the store limping and bald!
But there was no magic pill.
Having grown up in Japan, I knew that the Japanese method of “kaizen” (making small changes to see big results) would be of the most help.
So I started off eating a salad at lunch. It still had creamy dressing, cheese, croutons, bacon bits, etc. But it was a salad. There was lettuce in there somewhere! After a few weeks, I eliminated the cheese. Then the croutons. Then the bacon. Then I changed the dressing.
The same went for my fitness. I started exercising during commercial breaks for my favorite TV shows. Then I ventured outside and started walking. Then slowly progressing to jogging. Then to lifting weights.
One day I looked in the mirror and realized, “Holy crap! I’ve lost 80 pounds!”
Now I could shop in any store I wanted. I could meet anyone, famous or otherwise, and be proud of the person I’d become, inside and out.
Eating is an absolute JOY now! I look forward to tasting each meal, preparing it with the same enthusiasm I have for my “alone time” at the gym.
I no longer look like I’ve checked out on life. I look on the outside like I feel on the inside – A MILLION BUCKS!
Eventually, I wrote a book about my weight loss called “What if You Were Thin” (available at http://www.whatifyouwerethin.com) to give other men and women the courage to take the first step and know that, regardless of how insurmountable the obstacle may appear to be – the weight CAN and WILL come off if you’ll just take the first, small step.
A sample day of each meal eaten throughout my transformation:

A sample week of each exercise used throughout my transformation including sets, reps, etc.
Daily Workout Warmup:
Monday and Friday:
Tuesday and Thursday:
Wednesday:
You aren’t in competition with anyone else but yourself. Focus on becoming the best YOU and being happy in your own skin first and foremost! Master that, and everything else will fall into place naturally.