
I’m a stay at home mom of six and wife to an active duty Army soldier who was facing a C1/C2 spinal fusion to repair a hangman's fracture of his Odontoid. His injury prevented him from doing anything around the house to help with home or children so the responsibility for everything fell squarely on my shoulders leading to feelings of being overwhelmed, anxiety and depression.
What was your low point or turning point?
I was so rundown and depressed that I felt like I couldn’t breathe. I went to get dressed and realized my super fat pants weren’t fitting anymore and that I was going to have to buy new ones. The same day a stranger asked how much longer until I gave birth, as apparently, I gave the appearance of an extremely pregnant woman since a good portion of my fat was being carried in my stomach.

Were there any unique challenges or circumstances that made your transformation particularly difficult?
Gym time was almost impossible to find. My husband couldn’t take care of the kids for me to go and his military schedule changed from day to day to day. Being stationed far from home also meant that there was an extremely limited support system in place for me.
Transformation timeline:
What was your weight training approach and split during your transformation?
I started with a basic Upper/Lower split with two days on and one day off. After four weeks I switched to a push/pull/legs, and then towards upper/lower circuits. I’m currently on a five day split, varying constantly. I find my body responds well when I change things up frequently and prevents me from getting bored. Every workout is new and exciting for me.
| Monday - Quads, Hamstrings and Calves | ||
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| Exercise | Sets | Reps |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
| Tuesday - Chest, Back and Abs | ||
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| Exercise | Sets | Reps |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
| Butterfly |
3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
| Stomach Vacuum | 3 | 15, 12, 10 |
| Thursday - Shoulders and Calves | ||
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| Exercise | Sets | Reps |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
| Friday - Triceps, Biceps and Abs | ||
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| Exercise | Sets | Reps |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
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3 | 15, 12, 10 |
| Stomach Vacuum | 3 | 15, 12, 10 |
Please detail your cardio approach during your transformation?
My body responded well to fasted cardio. Again I found it important to switch it up to keep it fresh and effective. One day might be 25 minutes of HIIT on a treadmill, another day might be 40 minutes on the elliptical at a steady clip. Every few weeks I added a second cardio session after my evening
Please list 3 things you learned about exercise, weight training and/or cardio during your transformation that helped you succeed:
How are you currently training, and has your training changed since the completion of your transformation?
I’m currently training with Shannon Dey’s Team Bombshell. My training has gotten more intense for sure but I’m reaping the results. I’m currently doing cardio six days a week and
What was your diet/nutrition approach during your transformation?
As clean as possible. Lean proteins, complex carbs and lots of fruits and veggies with every meal and plenty of healthy fats.
Can you provide us with a sample eating plan (please be specific):
Were there any diet/nutrition mistakes you made that you learned from?
Beware of carb cycling and PMS combining. Be prepared to apologize. A lot. The fact that my husband didn’t divorce me or move out is a sign of how much he loves me ;)
Please list 3 things you learned about diet & nutrition during your transformation that helped you succeed:
Did you allow yourself cheat meals?
Yes. Once a week within reason. It kept me from binging and made me work even harder to earn them. I stopped referring to them as cheat meals because the word cheat had too much guilt associated with it. They’re my reward meals.
What supplements did you use during your transformation?
Optimum Nutrition Gold Standard Whey, and occasionally Optimum Nutrition’s AmiN.O. Energy if I felt bogged down and too tired to go to the gym. Beyond that just standard multivitamins and a slow release iron tablet. I’m prone to anemia so getting enough iron is so important for me.
What are your best tips for someone looking to make their own transformation?
How do you stay motivated? What advice would you give to someone who’s having trouble staying on track?
Find someone to be accountable to. Tell EVERYONE your goals. Plaster it on Facebook, tweet it, tell your church friends, your family. Create a support group for yourself. The more people know your goals, the less likely you are to quit, so get public about it. And be proud, because watching you make your transformation might inspire your friends to do the same.
What is your life like now that you’ve made a transformation?
It’s amazing really. The gym gave me an outlet for my frustrations and my fears, especially regarding my husbands surgery (he came through with FLYING colors by the way and is currently looking forward to a time when we can hit the gym together). I used to have a hard time getting up in the morning, which led to kids missing the bus and frantic rushes to the car line. I never ate breakfast which left me tired and weak…it was awful. Now I’m up at the crack of dawn, refreshed and ready to GO. My nutrition and workouts give me the energy I need to keep up with my children and my house, and have left me happier, easier to be around, more likely to laugh and less likely to cry and stronger all the way around. I would never go back to that life again.
What motivates you currently to keep improving yourself?
Competition! I’m going to realize my dream of competing in the NPC. This summer I plan to compete in the figure division in several shows in the state of Louisiana, where we are currently stationed. At the end of the day it’s not going to matter if I take first or 16th. Just by stepping on that stage, I’ll have proven to myself that I can and will walk away a winner.
Anything else you would like to share?
If you don’t have supportive people around you in person, go online. There are so many supportive groups out there, and never be afraid to dream big.
How can people contact you?
I can be reached via my email address mp.wife@yahoo.com, or via my blog, http://incredibleshrinkingmom.wordpress.com/, and of course on twitter @fit_mama_kayti.